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Young/Single Parent Support
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The following client stories are real; only the names have been changed to protect confidentiality.  The stories illustrate the different experiences the clients had before, during and after the support they obtained from Brighter Futures and from Buns in the Oven. 

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1.        Paula - Keeping It All Together
2.        Cheryl - Brief Encounter
3.        Valerie - The More Things Change, the More They Remain the Same
4.        Maureen - With a Little Help from Her Friends
5.        Mona - Breaking the Chain
6.        Diane - A Good Start
7.        Annie - A Safe Place to Live
8.        Tara’s - A Need to Learn
9.        Lena - Role Model
10.      Young Dad


1.         Keeping It All Together  

Paula enrolled in the high school program at Youville as a 17-year old mother of Jonathon, then aged 7 months.  She circled her three main activities at the time as “ caring for child, going to school, and working for pay”—a balancing act she was to maintain with few variations for the time she was in contact with this study.

Paula was living in a pleasant neighbourhood with a partner who helped with child-raising.  The household was poor, earning less than $15,000 annually, and made use of the food bank (where Paula volunteered) as well as several other services such as health clinics, day care, library, and children’s recreational programs.  She came to the program after reading an advertisement for it posted at a drop-in program, and then made contact with the Brighter Future’s Transitions West counsellor.  A non-smoker and only occasional drinker, Paula reported her health as very good.  A healthy child still being breast fed, Jonathon was in the infant day care while his mother attended high school classes and anger management classes. 

As part of her initial interview only a few weeks after intake, Paula reports that Jonathon had no serious health problems or injuries.  She feels she has the support of others when needed, positive feelings about her abilities as a parent, and on the whole is happy.  In many areas her self-esteem is good, although she feels she has little control over things that happen to her or no way to solve some of her problems. As for the program, “It’s really good, there should be more.”

Only in the second interview, about nine months later, does Paula report that she was extremely depressed after Jonathon was born and that accessing services of The Network “saved her life”. She feels that many people have helped her, and is still in touch with her Transitions West counsellor.  She has graduated from high school has started courses at Algonquin College.  As a peer facilitator, she is teaching cooking at a Brighter Futures prenatal nutrition class (Buns in the Oven) as well as yoga for children at a local community center.  She is less confident in her role as a parent than before, but credits the Brighter Futures anger management course with helping her control her anger.  Her self-ratings of feelings of self-worth and ability to control her life are very positive and show marked improvement.  In the last month she has moved to a townhouse in a pleasant suburb and is living with another young mother of one child.  Nothing is said about the absence of her partner, although she indicates there is good support from others in her life.

At her final interview 21 months after intake, she is in full-time attendance at a three-year program at Algonquin College with a goal of pursuing a  university degree and working with children and youth.  She worked part time in the summer at a field placement with a social agency.  She has a new roommate but is living in the same townhouse.  She misses her former roommate and her help and advice on child-raising, but feels she has a lot of close friends who are her main supports.  Financially, she is better off now with a student loan than she was on welfare.  She has little time in her life for participating in any programs.  Her health is suffering, though, and she fears that school and stress generally is bringing back problems she has had before with anorexia. 

The best thing Brighter Futures provided her with is emotional support, she says.  In her mind, the program was more directly helpful to her than Jonathan.  However, as a result of the help she received, she feels she can provide a better future for her son.  He is now in a stable day care situation at her college where he gets along well with the staff and other children and continues to be healthy.  They’re both looking forward to Brighter Futures camp this summer.

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2.         Brief Encounter 

Twenty-year-old Cheryl says she would never have heard of St. Mary’s without the referral from a hospital social worker.  At the time of intake, she and her 18-month old daughter Susan were living with her parents and sister in the home where she herself was raised as a child.  A high school graduate, Cheryl was taking classes at Algonquin College when she joined Brighter Future’s Baby and Me program at St. Mary’s.

At the time of the first interview two months later, Cheryl was no longer at St. Mary’s.  She describes herself as a “drop-out”. Both she and her child are healthy; she feels supported by friends and family and on the whole has a positive outlook on life, although at times feels she is a failure and helpless in the face of problems.

A follow up interview one year after intake finds little changed:  Cheryl and her daughter are still living with her family while she attends classes at Algonquin.  Her daughter is in a licensed family day care home.   Thinking back to her time with Brighter Futures, Cheryl feels the program introduced her to social services in the community (although the number of services she is using has not increased).  Living at home in a stable family, she hadn’t been introduced to social services before.  She says she also made new friends there who shared her situation, but she hated the “stupid rules”.  Notably, her self-assessment of control over her life and ability to solve problems is now very strong.

Two years after her brief period in Baby and Me, Cheryl has moved out of her parents home and is living in a rented house.  She’ll be moving again once the lease there terminates in a few months.  But as much as she acknowledges her parents’ support, she believes she can take more charge over her own life living on her own.  She has graduated from Algonquin College, taken up a first job in a professional office, quit that job, and returned to Algonquin for training in another field.  She was “miserable” in her job and now feels she has a much more clear sense of her career goals. 

Reflecting on her experiences, she says she initially did not want to attend St. Mary’s and disliked various aspects of the home.  But now she realizes that it helped her get to where she is now in her life.  She feels she is a well-prepared mom who can take good care of her child because of the lessons she learned in the Baby and Me program at St. Mary’s.  “I wouldn’t change history for anything.”

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3.         The More Things Change, the More They Remain the Same

When 14-year-old Valerie found out she was pregnant, she quit using street drugs and alcohol but continued to smoke cigarettes and marijuana.  Her son Tommy was born two weeks past his due date, a healthy 8-pound, 10-ounce infant who required no special care after birth.  Two years later a healthy daughter, Lynette, is born. 

At about that time, the young family moved into a subsidized housing community that is fighting an uphill battle against racial tensions, crime and violence.  The family is living there when Valerie enters the Brighter Futures program through Youville Centre and continues to reside in the same place for the two years she is in contact with this study.  At intake, she describes her neighbourhood as generally safe for children, with no alcohol or drug use.  Her assessment of the neighbourhood deteriorates over time and at her most recent interview, she complains that she has had to call the police to intervene with new neighbours who are involved in drugs.

Valerie was referred to The Network by a social worker with the Children’s Aid Society.  At age 19, she has a Grade 9 education.  Her use of social services in the past is extensive and includes alcohol and drug abuse counselling, the food bank, services for children with emotional and health problems, and the walk-in health clinic.  She is soon taking anger and stress management, Baby and Me, and high school courses at Youville while Tommy (age 4) and Lynette (age 3) are in the day care.   

At her second interview eight months later, Valerie is taking Brighter Futures’ anger and stress management; her children are still in their preschool programs at Youville and the family went camping with the Brighter Futures program the previous summer.  It is close to Christmas, and Valerie is setting her sights on graduating from high school next fall.  She is co-president at school and feels that participation by the students is very important.  Her assessment of Tommy now indicates that his aggression is limiting his ability to participate in programs.  Youville has arranged for another agency outside the network to deliver a specialized, one-to-one therapy  program for Tommy while his is in day care.  She has difficulty managing him.  Although she is tired and tense as a parent, she feels she is doing a good job.  Life generally is seeming more difficult than before.  She rates her health as “fair” and although she has quit smoking for several months, she has stopped and started drinking again. 

Valerie can say nothing negative about Brighter Futures:  it has helped her with her education and her social life.  The teachers and Brighter Futures staff have been helpful, understanding and supportive. 

At her last interview two years after intake, Valerie is having a hard winter.  She is worried about Tommy’s aggression; he is doing well in Beavers and Tai chi but poorly in his Grade 1 class.  She’s doing her best as a mother but it’s a thankless job. An old and a new boyfriend have come and gone.  She has graduated from High School in the fall as planned and is now looking for work and looking forward to college in the coming fall.  But things are worse than they were six months ago.  She misses the stability that the daily routine at school provided and she is worse off financially without the bus pass from the school and access to the food bank.  She is not involved in any Brighter Futures programs or any other programs.  Her support from people close to her is “non-existent”.

Valerie believes Tommy gets along better with adults as a result of the special attention he received at day care. When asked what was the best thing for her about Brighter Futures, she replies, “Just having someone to talk to.”  She also values her improved parenting skills and the one-to-one addictions counselling she received.  She has now quit drinking completely.  She does not mention high school graduation.

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4.         With a Little Help from Her Friends 

Maureen, age 21, signed up for Brighter Futures’ Parenting Plus and Baby and Me at the Salvation Army Bethany Hope Centre with her three-year-old son following a referral from a community resource center.  With a Grade 9 education, she received welfare and lived with her son in an apartment.  During her first interview, she expressed satisfaction with her role as a mother and generally positive feelings about her life.  In some areas of personal support, however, she feels vulnerable; for example, she does not believe she can count on others during an emergency or that she has family and friends who make her feel secure.  She loves the playroom and outdoor area where the playgroup is held and feels the program is very good.

Nine months later, Maureen is continuing in Brighter Futures’ Parenting Plus at the Salvation Army Bethany Hope Centre.  She says she especially appreciates that the course is for young/single parents; as a single parent, she realizes there are times that she really needs someone to “lend an ear” and that’s when the program is there for her. Her self-assessment of personal support is now strong; she can count on others and draw support from friends and family.

Twenty months later, Martin has started junior kindergarten and is doing well.  His mother credits playgroup with drawing him out of his shyness.  The transition worker has helped Maureen by working on correspondence courses through the I.L.C. (Independent Learning Centre) program at Salvation Army Bethany Hope Centre, where the playgroup and parenting courses have been offered.  She finds it a quiet place to work while Martin is in playgroup.  Her focus on schooling and adhering to a routine for herself and her son are keeping them both too busy to participate in other programs in the community.  Maureen feels that this turn in her life has brought her more respect and more support from her family.

Looking back on her experience with the Brighter Futures program, she can only say good things.  It was what she needed, to be around other single parents to talk things through.  She felt that if she was having problems, there would be people there waiting to help her.  “It made me feel more secure.”

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5.   5.         Breaking the Chain 

Referred to The Network by a friend, Mona entered the program as a confident 24-year-old woman of mixed Canadian and native American ancestry.  Living alone with a four-year-old son, Mona described her main activity as going to school, which included a correspondence course in math while her son attended the Youville day care and preschool.  She is also taking Brighter Future’s anger and stress management and a parenting program.  Although her only other family ties were with a grandmother living in another city, Mona reported on her intake form that she had a good informal support system of family and friends.  She had strong self-esteem and felt she had control of her future. Five months later, she also reported a high level of confidence in her abilities as a parent and enjoyment of that role.  Throughout successive interviews, she describes her son Jason as happy and healthy, accepted by his peers and reasonably well-behaved.

Only her health history and use of marijuana, alcohol and cigarettes hint at problems in the past.  Jason is the only child born to her although she has been pregnant three times.  A smoker, she also reported use of marijuana during her pregnancy and although she drinks only about once per month, she has several drinks on these occasions. 

Twelve months after intake into Brighter Futures, Mona has quite drinking and smoking and is taking swimming lessons.  Her use of other community services has increased from two (library and child care) to three, to include the walk-in community health clinic.  Although not taking any Brighter Futures programs at the time of the interview, she credits the anger and stress management program she took there with “straightening me out—it made me realize how much I was abusing my body.”  Somewhat older than many program participants, Mona is taking courses at a local business college.

At her final interview, 21 months after she entered Brighter Futures, Mona has just finished her last exams and graduated from the business program.  She is attending a pre-employment program, working on her resume and preparing for job interviews while holding down a part-time job in a fast-food restaurant.  Her son has graduated from day care to attend Grade 1 and a YMCA/YWCA after-school program.  She regrets that she has resumed smoking but feels in general her life is better now than it was six months ago:  her partner has moved in with her and her son and together they have more money and hope to move to a nicer neighbourhood.  In two years she’d like to have a stable job (with benefits, she notes) and in five years, she’d like to have an RRSP.

When asked what the biggest thing Brighter Futures did for her, she replies that the group support was great and the anger management and parenting courses were excellent.  “I was an abused child and I know these things are passed down.  I’m making sure Jason’s childhood is better than mine.  He’s loved.”

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6.         A Good Start  

When asked at her most recent interview where she sees herself in one year, in two years, 18-year-old Diane cannot see past high school.  With at least two more years ahead of her to graduation, she has “no idea” what she’ll be doing in five years.  The immediate future is busy enough:  she has found a new day care for her 18-month old daughter and starts at a new high school herself next month. Until then, she busies herself around her subsidized apartment, which she says is very nice although there are “lots of weird people” in the building.

Diane came to St. Mary’s Home as a pregnant 16-year old on the advice of her grandmother and with the guidance of the Transitions East counsellor.  Three months into her stay there, she is taking Brighter Future’s smoking cessation and early intervention substance abuse program, as well as Baby Basics while awaiting the birth of her child.  Describing her main activity as “leisure (reading)”, she smokes about five cigarettes daily and while sometimes in the past used alcohol, marijuana and other drugs, she is abstaining from these during her pregnancy.  The St. Mary’s staff  are “no problem” and some of the rules are “pretty retarded”.  She has a poor appetite and is distractible and having trouble sleeping; she feels she has little control over her life, but nevertheless feels happy most of the time.  In this and subsequent interviews, she indicates she has her own support network of friends and family to draw upon.

At the next interview, 12 months after entering St. Mary’s, Diane is a high school student living in her own apartment.  The high school has a day care, which cares for her nine-month old daughter while she attends class.  Jessica was born within a week of her due date, a healthy infant weighing in at 7 pounds, six ounces.  They are still breast-feeding.  Diane finds being a parent tiring, but otherwise is very positive about her new role.  Best of all, she has quit smoking thanks to Brighter Future’s Kick Butt for Two program.  Her troubled health at St. Mary’s has improved; her self-assessment in areas such as control over her life, feelings of self-worth and outlook on the future are very positive.

Compared with a year ago, Dianne reports using more services:  in addition to the walk-in health clinic and library, she is now using child care services and specialized health clinics. Looking back at her time at St. Mary’s, she credits the Baby Basics program for teaching her how to care for her daughter and believes things are going easier for her because of her time there.  But she also points out that the programs are worthwhile only if participants want to go. She chose not to go to Brighter Future’s anger and stress management and did not like attending Brighter Future’s early intervention substance abuse program.  She says she did not get along well with the other young women in the residence.

At the final interview, almost two years since she entered St. Mary’s, Dianne reports that Vanessa is doing very, very well and surpassing most of the milestones in the Brighter Future’s child development resource she consults.  The child was diagnosed with asthma recently, but the chronic diarrhoea she was experiencing has cleared up since Dianne moved her to a new day care.  They were unable to continue at her previous high school because of lack of space, but Dianne has applied and been accepted at a new school to start Grade 11 next month.  Apart from these events, nothing has changed and nothing needs to change in their lives for now.  She is not participating in Brighter Futures or other community programs, but looks back at her time at St. Mary’s and credits the Brighter Futures program with giving a better start to Vanessa.

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7.         A Safe Place to Live 

Annie was a troubled and pregnant 15 year old in 1995 when she first learned about the Brighter Futures Program.  Life was hard for her at that point, and she told me that she "had to move into a maternity home".  She had experienced trouble with the law, and had been living in a group home. She moved into St. Mary's Home and her life took a turn for the better.

Annie, now 18 years old, gave birth to a healthy son in July 1995.  Today, Mark is a very energetic two and a half year old toddler.   Annie reports that he is doing very well.  He is in a day-care program at a local high school. Annie reports that he is very social and gets along fabulously with his playmates and day care staff.  Mark is taller than the other children his age and he is talking  more than they do, according to his mother.  At one point Annie was concerned that he was not putting enough sentences together, but she has come to understand that his speech is developing quite normally. Apparently, he is the only child in his age group who climbs on some of the play structures in the day care.  When the interviewer queried about just how "energetic" this little lad is, she indicated that he is very active, but that at times "he can sit down and play by himself quietly".   His health is very good, with the only health related problem being ear infections, which are occurring less as time goes by. Annie's health is "fine". She does tend to "run" a little and she thinks that she could do with more sleep and more physical exercise.

When asked whether Annie feels that she is doing a good job as a parent, she answered "usually, yes".  It seems that people around her are continuously telling her that she is a good parent, but she feels that she could do better.  She gets stressed out easily, and when she is stressed,  she may yell louder at Mark.  She thinks  that the type of punishment she gives him depends on her mood about less than half the time.  On the other hand, when she talks to him about his behaviour, more than half of the time it is praise.

Annie reports that everything is good for her these days except that things are stressful and worse for her in her "personal life".    She and her (non live-in) boyfriend experienced some difficulties and they broke up recently.  Apart from this break-up, she says that the main things happening in her life now is "working hard at school" full time,  and working one day per week at a CPNP program called "Buns in the Oven" where she is a Program Assistant.  She became involved with the program because she had become a natural, breastfeeding role model after Mark was born, and had successfully completed several of the Brighter Futures programs. Brighter Futures staff wanted to build upon Annie’s natural leadership abilities and interpersonal skills.

She is happy with her living situation in the Emily Murphy Non-Profit Housing development.  Her home is very comfortable and the neighbourhood is "nice and safe".  She can take Mark outside without any fear and they spend a lot of time in nearby parks.

Economically, things are stable for Annie.  The Children's Aid Society provides her with financial support, and apparently this will continue until she is twenty one years of age.   Her mother is supportive and Annie has made "good friends" with Brighter Futures staff, and she can count on their support one hundred per cent.

In 1995, Annie had no choice about becoming a resident at a maternity home.  She did not know what to expect at that point.  She figured that things in her life were so bad (previously, she had spent time in a detention centre), that entering St. Mary’s Home could not possibly make things any worse.   However, once she got into the daily routine of  living there, something special began to happen.  She says that the Brighter Futures project staff started asking her to help out with little projects, and at that point Annie felt that "they (Brighter Futures project staff) started opening a lot of doors" for her. She came to realize that she had linked up with some people that she could count on for support, and that she and some of the staff became "good friends".

After Mark was born, she and the baby began participating in the "Baby and Me" program. The only reason she had to stop the program is that Mark outgrew it.   She feels that both mother and son benefited greatly from “Baby and Me”.  Today, she and Mark are still eligible for the Brighter Futures summer camping program.  She says that camp "helped him see and do things that he would have never done" otherwise.  She attributes Mark's good development to her entering The Network. 

Brighter Futures also pointed her in the direction of the Emily Murphy Non-Profit Housing development.  After she first left St. Mary's, she lived in a very undesirable location.  With the help of her ties at Brighter Futures, she got into the Emily Murphy housing project, and she has only high praise for her place and the neighbourhood.  At her previous location, she could not have taken Mark outside to play, it was just too rough.  “Here at Emily Murphy, Mark can live and play like a normal child.”

Annie says that she sees herself finishing High School and getting ready for college in a year from now.  She anticipates still being in college in two years. In 5 years time she sees herself having completed college, working and reaping the benefits of  her hard work, like having a nice car and home.

Annie reported that she doesn't know what she would have done if she had passed up the opportunity of accessing Network services.  She has a girlfriend  who also lives in the Emily Murphy Housing development, and she too had been a resident at St. Mary's.  These days the two of them get together for walks outside in their neighbourhood and they talk a lot about their experiences with Brighter Futures programs.  Annie says that without Brighter Futures, she and her friend don’t know how they would have “made it”.

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8.         A Need to Learn 

Tara is 18 years old and was born in Canada. At the time of the study her son was 3 months old. He was her second child but she was parenting for the first time. According to staff, her first child was taken from her by Children’s Aid Society (CAS) because Tara was considered to be an at-risk mother. She was very young, poorly educated, had struggled with the law and had been abused by a stepfather and by a previous boyfriend. She has a grade 8 education and has been on social assistance. She admitted herself that she was not ready to be a parent the first time - she was 16 when her first child was born. When we interviewed Tara, she was on the waiting list for Youville Centre, a high school for young mothers, and hoped to complete her secondary education. She had just moved into a new apartment and had recently met a new boyfriend, who according to staff, appears to be mature and a good influence.

Tara was staying at a women’s shelter when she first learned about the prenatal nutrition program. She was referred by staff at the shelter who felt she would benefit by the support the program could offer. She told us she was really afraid at first because she didn’t know anything about caring for herself during her pregnancy or about caring for a baby. As she said in her own words.

“I needed to learn a lot of things. Before I came here I didn’t know how to take care of a baby - I didn’t know how to bath a baby, change the baby or feed the baby.”

 In terms of getting to the program, Tara told us the bus tickets really helped. Many of the women live quite close to the location where their group is held, but for Tara this was not the case. Tara is very appreciative of the fresh food and milk she obtains from the program. She felt that without the program, she and her young son would starve. They also use the food bank to help get by, but the food bank cannot provide the fresh food she and her baby need.

Tara told us that that the program has made her a better mom. She told us about her experiences with her first child and how the baby was taken into foster care because she “didn’t know anything”. She didn’t realize how much time a baby would take. Now she is coming to weekly meetings and learning how to be a good parent. She told us she used to get frustrated but then she was taught techniques at the program such as baby massage, how to soothe her baby when he cried and other ways to handle her child (through the videos).

One of the best things about coming to the program, Tara told us, was being able to talk to other mothers and get their advice. It was through the program and the weekly meetings that she met and became close friends with Lena. (see Lena’s story below) They now get together on their own time. Lena is not only a friend to Tara but also a role model. According to Tara, Lena would reassure her throughout her pregnancy. Tara had a difficult pregnancy, experienced a lot of illness and was very frightened that things were not right. Lena, who had three children, helped to support Tara during and after her pregnancy.

An important related piece of information about Tara’s story is that up to the time she began the program, CAS had a supervisory order in her file. This order was removed after she enrolled and attended the program. This is a strong testimonial about the positive impact the program has made on Tara’s life. 

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9.         Role Model 

Lena is 36 years old and was born in Jamaica. She lives with her husband who is still looking for work after losing his job at a small printing company. She has just had her fourth child, and according to staff, just loves having children and being a mom. Lena learned about CPNP through a neighbour. She and her husband have lived in Canada less than two years, having immigrated to join a family business and give their children a better life. Lena was feeling very isolated at home during this pregnancy. Two of her children were in school full time and her husband worked long hours. When she heard about the program and what it had to offer, she welcomed the opportunity to meet other mothers, and learn more about the “Canadian” way of life. Because her family’s current financial situation was not very good, she also looked forward to the food supplements that the program would supply.

Lena told us how much she enjoyed coming to the program. The location is ideal for her because it is in the same centre as her doctor - “one stop shopping” she calls it. Although some of the women take the bus to get there, she says she is lucky because she can walk from her apartment. In addition to her youngest child, a son, who is in the program, she brings his sister. “My daughter really looks forward to coming,” she told us. Lena also talked about how enriched she felt from meeting women from other cultures - there are a number of Muslim women in the group. She says she likes that “her horizons are expanded”.

As an experienced mom, Lena sees herself as a bit of a role model for the younger moms. She has become close to one mom in particular, Tara. She told us she felt good about being able to support Tara. When Tara first started coming to the program, she was very afraid about having her baby and not being able to look after the baby. Lena helped to reassure her by relaying some of her own fears with her first pregnancy. Lena and Tara meet at other times in between the program and have become friends. When staff first told Tara about Youville Centre, a high school for young mothers, Lena encouraged her to think about putting her name on the waiting list. Staff have observed the close relationship between Lena and Tara and the positive benefit it has had for both of them.

For Lena, the program has helped in many ways. She is breastfeeding and told us it is going very well thanks to the ongoing advice she has been given by the lactation consultant. She had difficulty breastfeeding her previous children and she credits the program with her success this time. She told us that in general she is much more relaxed and a lot less critical of herself. She finds it great to get out and enjoys the adult company. She has learned a lot about pregnancy, birth control and nutrition. Even though she was an experienced mom, she says that the program has given her added confidence that she can raise her children to be healthy and productive adults. Her family appreciates the access to fresh food during this difficult time. Most of all, the program has given Lena the opportunity to share her life experiences with others and to make new friends.


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10.       Young Dad 

I have been attending the Young Fathers’ Program for over four years. My experiences there have been great. I started attending the program when my son was only a few months old and I feel that Brighter Futures and the Young Fathers’ Program has changed my life for the better.

 When my son was born, I was scared that I wasn’t going to be a good father. I didn’t have enough confidence in myself. Ever since I was a little boy, I was taught that fathers worked and mothers were the primary caregivers. The Young Fathers’ Program showed me a whole new light. I learned that fathers were equally as important as mothers and that my son needs the same love and support from me as he does from his mother.

The staff and volunteers at Brighter Futures and the Young Fathers’ Program are very kind, understanding and resourceful people. I thank them with all my heart for helping me become the father I am today. I am much more confident and caring as a father and as a person altogether. The Young Fathers’ Program at Youville is a great place to relax, have fun, and most of all, talk about various issues that fathers deal with on a daily basis. I have in the past brought other young fathers to the program.

Brighter Futures has done an excellent job promoting fatherhood and I hope they keep up the good work because the people that benefit from it the most are the children. I am still attending the Young Fathers’ Program and I am confident that the they will help me in the future with other issues as my son grows and develops.

Thank you for all your hard work.